Wanda Sykes speaks her mind

Hearing Wanda Sykes’ take on hot-button issues in her stand-up shows, it’s hard to believe that one of the country’s most popular comics was once tied to a desk job.

Though Sykes says she always loved comedy, her first job out of college was as a contracting specialist for the National Security Agency in Washington D.C., which, as she tells it, actually put her on the comedy path.

“Once you get into government, you pretty much are there for 20, 30 years, and then you can retire. I was looking at it like, ‘No, this is not the path that I would like to be on. I want to try something else,’ ” Sykes says. “Having the security of a government job allowed me to go out and try stand-up.”

Sykes decided to try stand-up after hearing about a comedy talent show on the radio. Today, the 55-year-old is beloved by audiences not just for her riotous takes on race and politics but also for her roles in shows such as “The Chris Rock Show,” “The New Adventures of Old Christine,” “Curb Your Enthusiasm” and “Black-ish.” Her work and personal life also have made history. She was the first black woman and first openly gay comic to perform at the White House Correspondents’ Dinner in 2009.

This month, audiences can hear her distinctive voice in the upcoming animated musical “UglyDolls,” which opens in theaters May 3. She’s also traveling the country on her “Oh Well” tour, which includes a stop May 9 at the Hard Rock Event Center. Ahead of her performance, Lifestyle spoke to Sykes about her upcoming Netflix special and what audiences can expect from her South Florida show.

It’s been 30 years since the start of your career. Today, we think of your delivery, your voice, as so instantly identifiable. What were your early stand-up routines like—and when do you think you really found your voice on stage?

I’m a good joke writer, so I had material. But it wasn’t anything personal. It wasn’t anything about me. It was more Jerry Seinfeld-ish type [comedy]. I think all comics do that. Before you find your voice, you’re pretty much just doing your impersonation of a comic. [You] have the rhythm. [You] know how to construct a joke—but you’re not really saying anything.

At first, [I] was cautious. “Oh, is this person not going to like that?” or “My parents will be upset if I do this.” It wasn’t until [her half-hour Comedy Central special], that I said, “You know what? To hell with it. I want to talk about some stuff.”

As you began working on material for your upcoming Netflix special—your fifth stand-up special—did you find yourself thinking more about how material might play in such a polarized climate?

I think people expect a certain level as far as what I’m going to do on stage. If I went on stage and I wasn’t political, and I didn’t say anything, it would be like the elephant in the room. I think people would be disappointed. “All right, that’s funny, but where’s the meat? Where’s what we want to hear from you?”

It’s what I wanted to do, too. [In the special], I come out of the gate swinging. But it’s not just that—I get to my family. I talk about race. I talk about going through menopause and how that sucks. I’m very proud of this new hour that’s coming out.

Your twins with wife Alex are now 10. Of all your voice work on animated movies and TV cartoons, which character do they most appreciate?

They were really into [her role as] Gregoria in [the Disney Junior network show] “Vampirina.” But now, they’re a little older. My daughter’s like, “Well, you know, that’s a cool show for little kids.” Now they want to watch live action TV shows, which is when we’re like, “Nope.” Some of those kids [in those shows], they’re so bratty and just awful. I’m like, “If you start mimicking this behavior, you are going to be in so much trouble.” It’s like how “Peanuts” got me in trouble when I was a kid. They were awful kids.

Right now, they’re really excited about “UglyDolls.” They so want to see that. Especially my daughter. She loves music and singing, so if something comes out with a lot of music in it, she’s excited about it.

Susie Essman has said that, because of her character on “Curb Your Enthusiasm,” that instead of an autograph, people would ask her to yell at them for an iPhone video. Have you had similar requests from your time on “Curb,” or any other movie or TV roles?

Oh, yeah. Not recently, which I’m so grateful for. When I was on “Curb,” I got that a lot. People would just come up to me and say, “Hey, curse me out!” Or, “Hey, can you yell at me?” Or, “Yell at me like you yell at Larry [David, “Curb” creator].” I’m like, “No, I’m not a crazy woman. What’s wrong with you?” And then I end up yelling at them by getting mad because they asked me to yell at them.

You were awarded GLAAD’s Stephen F. Kolzak Award in 2010, given to media professionals who promote equality. What do you and your wife do to raise your children with a sense of activism?

We really don’t have to do anything. We’re just living our lives. They don’t feel like they’re different. They’re like, “We have two moms, and my friend might have a mom and a dad.” It’s just normal for them, which is what you want them to feel, you know? You don’t want them to feel that something’s wrong. This is just how our family is made up.

You were Emmy-nominated twice for your recurring role in “Black-ish,” known for its head-on approach to the issues that the country grapples with. In the episodes you’ve been in, are there any in which the issues discussed particularly resonated with you?

Definitely that episode, “Lemons” [which aired in January 2017 and dealt with the aftermath of the 2016 presidential election]. That was really so well-written and an important episode. I was just really honored to be involved with the show. Anthony Anderson’s speech—that one got me. And he performed it so well.

What can fans expect when you come to South Florida for your show at the Hard Rock?

Oh, man, I’m going to have so much fun on stage. I’ve been touring, touring, getting this hour together. Now that the hour is already in the can, I’m just having a blast performing. There’s a lot of stuff that didn’t make it into the special. … It’s so much fun being on stage, knowing that what I have is just fire—and also getting to throw in all the other stuff that I didn’t get to do on the special.

Wanda Sykes

When: May 9, 8 p.m.

Where: Hard Rock Event Center, 1 Seminole Way, Hollywood

What: The actress and comedian riffs on family, culture and politics in her “Oh Well” stand-up tour.

Tickets: Priced at $35, $50 and $65 (excluding service charges); ticketmaster.com

Info: seminolehardrockhollywood.com

You May Also Like
Broward Galentine’s Raises Record $120,000 for 4KIDS

The 9th annual Galentine’s luncheon unites South Florida’s philanthropic leaders in support of vulnerable children and families.

Read More
Six women in professional attire smile in front of an ornate “4KIDS. Every child deserves a seat at the table” backdrop, celebrating Broward Galentine’s and supporting 4KIDS fundraising efforts. Lifestyle
From Bass Line to Bottom Line

How Anna de Ferran is scaling L’Amigas, an all-female DJ collective, into an international sisterhood in sound.

Read More
A woman wearing headphones and casual clothes lounges on a white sofa, studying sheet music with bass lines highlighted, more sheets on her lap and scattered around her, against a dark background. Lifestyle
Eight Seats, Six Centuries of Craft

A new counter from Spicy Hospitality Group turns restraint, ritual, and reverence into the main event.

Read More
A piece of nigiri sushi with a slice of marbled raw fish placed over a small mound of white rice, served on a light-colored plate—reflecting centuries of craft in every detail, against a softly blurred background. Lifestyle
A Boutique Bet on the Beach

Merrimac Ventures Brings Boutique Beachside Living to North Beach Village

Read More
Modern beachfront apartment building with large balconies and glass railings, overlooking the ocean and palm trees at sunset. The sky is clear, and sunlight reflects off the water and nearby boutique hotel buildings. Lifestyle
Other Posts
Driven By Design

Miami Concours returned to the Miami Design District with hypercar debuts, historic icons, and a red-carpet celebration.

Read More
A red Ferrari convertible sports car, driven by design, is parked on a red carpet in front of a building adorned with blue and white mosaic wall art and framed by large trees casting shadows. Lifestyle
Warm Up This Winter In West Palm Beach 

Early 2026 brings an array of exciting offers and events in South Florida for everyone from foodies to families

Read More
A scenic waterfront walkway in West Palm Beach lined with palm trees and colorful flowers, where people relax by the water. A yacht cruises on the blue water as city buildings rise in the background under a bright, partly cloudy winter sky. Lifestyle
Two Nights. Three Shows.

Laughter, Magic and the King take over The Studio at Mizner Park.

Read More
An empty theater with rows of seats under bright stage lights. Text in the center reads, "the studio at Mizner Park Season Lineup: Three Shows, Two Nights. Lifestyle
FLIFF Returns

The 40th Fort Lauderdale International Film Festival brings bold shorts, documentaries, and comedies back to Broward

Read More
White text on a blue gradient background reads: "40 FLIFF Fort Lauderdale International Film Festival." The number 40 and the word FLIFF are large and prominent at the top, celebrating that FLIFF Returns for its milestone year. Lifestyle